I thought it was deliciously hilarious that this subject came up today, as it is Friday, and I’ve been dealing with this sort of thing for the whole week now.
My friend recently bought up a mens movement called “The Red Pill” (check REDDIT or Google) and how it resonates with him. I did not hear of it so I checked it out and my observations were a) it’s nothing new, b) it’s a fad, and c) I wasn’t sold on the matter.
Let me explain.
It’s not that I’m not sold in regards to male development, I’m all for it. I’ve personally done Speed Seduction, honed my “game” the best of my abilities, even used magick to get an advantage here and there. I also take care of my physical appearance, learn new things, etc – all for my personal development. Mind you, it’s not focused so my results is to get laid every day, all the time – that’s a very pleasurable side effect, lol. My goal is to enrich my life and be truly happy with the things I enjoy, and the life I want.
Money doesn’t excite me so I don’t bother with that, Wife/GF is not a thing for me at the moment – unless I find someone who can really appreciate the scope of the things I would like to accomplish and not get in the way but I’m not rushing to get it, I get all the sex that I need.
The thing that bothered me about the RedPill more was the philosophy and the premise behind the movement; that woman are to blame for a males misfortune because they set the stage of being oppressed while being the master puppeteers behind the scene who are really oppressing the males of the world.
When I look at that premise, and the people who follow it, the conclusion I see is a lot of males projecting themselves into a philosophy.
“I am restricted by a female and cannot put myself in a better position thus I project via TheRedPill.”
Personally, by giving that power to females in that sense, not only are you devaluing yourself, and the whole male populace – it is a very Beta thing to do (passive aggressive, shift blame to others).
Are males so stupid that we can’t see past the “tricks” woman put up? We can blow up nukes, put humans in space, influence Western philosophy but can’t see past a females charming traps?
Don’t get me wrong, woman are trained assassins in regards to charms and seduction. Once you are of age to process information, your mother passes on her lessons, magazines such as Cosmopolitan start teaching you the tricks of the trade, a whole industry in fashion is devoted to changing your looks to put you up in advantage.
Do I think that’s wrong though? I can’t blame a woman for following her biological programming and adapting to the world around her. They are doing what they are supposed to do. I believe in equality, in all aspects of gender and life. You always have a choice to follow the social programming, or go against it.
Are women trying to gain advantage over men in regards to procreation? Yes. Are they nefariously and consciously trying to change the social narrative to put men in a lower position? No. It implies that they are plotting but they are just following their biological instructions. Leave the plotting to the men ladies, lol.
In all seriousness though, besides the philosophy and premise behind the redpill – I don’t see any actual issues with the techniques. For the most part, it’s a extreme right regurgitated material, the original source is likely Ross Jefries of Speed Seduction. I’m sure there are gems in there, like any other resource in the world, just gotta find it.
It’s a niche subject that wants to be heard and the internet has always been a portal for these kinds of topics.
In conclusion, sheep will be sheep and wolves will be wolves – no matter what media they are on. It might be true that woman might be trying to consciously manipulate but you know what, would a wolf care? I’d rather be a wolf in any case, no matter what new incarnation of the PUA, Speed Seduction, The Game, The Mystery Method, The Red Pill comes out in the future.
These things are not the end all be all of methods, there are always things happening in the background that you won’t be able to know; just focus on yourself, and what you want, and how to get it, and fuck everything else.
Find that order in the chaos that is life.
“An Unexamined Life Is Not Worth Living.” -Socrates
P.S: I just thought this was a funny subject to touch up since…
- my work with Zepar should be concluding this weekend.
- a client work in regards to reconciliation is progressing.
- a couple of “ladies” were hitting on me (and to be fair, my brother as well)
- I was in a conversation with my friends in regards to how the males in my family are “whipped”. They then retracted their point since I was the exception, and I replied “there’s a reason why”. lol.
P.S.S: And the magickal perspective on this is…there is, lol, but can you figure it out?
P.S.S.S: The answer is control the desperation. Desperate people reeks failure, in magick, and the mundane.